Moments Revisited: Reflections During Trying Times

This election has me revisiting past moments. Yesterday left me feeling so sad, as an immigrant, Black, and queer woman. The weight of it all is undeniable. But moments like these remind me to look back, process my emotions, and reflect on how far I’ve come.

Today, I’m sharing a post I originally wrote in a foggy moment when life felt overwhelming. Re-reading it now reminds me of the power in reflection and the strength in moving forward.

A Look Back: Originally Titled – Ask Yourself

Lately, I’ve been in a fog. So many life changes are happening all at once, and sometimes I catch myself in negative thoughts. It happens, and it can catch you off guard. Depression is a silent killer, and that’s why I advocate so hard for mental health awareness, especially within the Black community.

The moment I find myself in negative self-talk, I have to take a moment and stop. Instead, I ask myself:

• What is my inner voice feeling/saying?
• What am I working towards?

I sit for a while, searching for the answers, and continue to ask myself: What is holding me back? Is whatever is holding me back true?

With all the changes happening in my life right now, it’s natural to feel uneasy and question myself. Everything I’m doing will affect my family. But even though I have moments of uncertainty, I also realize that sometimes our minds create illusions out of fear of change.

I’m constantly learning to shift my attention whenever I feel like I’m moving in a direction that jeopardizes my mental health. I have to allow my true self to come forward—sometimes even stronger.

One step at a time. One day at a time.

I’m truly honored for my village and those who support and uplift me.

To those of you reading this:
Ask yourself: Are you ready for more? Are you ready to clear the fog of uncertainty that’s been clouding your thoughts?

It’s okay to not be okay. But when you’re ready to move forward—when you’re ready to start living again—you’ll feel a shift in your spirit. The universe (or whatever you choose to call it) will support and uplift you. And without a doubt, you’ll start to see the magic happening around you.

Life is a journey.

Update:

I’ve been holding myself back because, as an immigrant, fear can feel overwhelming. In 2024, I experienced discrimination firsthand, and it’s terrifying. It made me hesitate to do the things I love or walk fully in my purpose. 

I will no longer live in fear because of ignorance and discrimination.  That’s one of the biggest reasons I chose to relaunch my site.

I’m not okay—but it’s okay.

I’m ready to move forward, and if you’re reading this, I hope you’re ready to start living again too. Despite all that’s happened, we move forward together.